Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men -Even If You're Smart and Self-Aware
You are not doomed to keep attracting emotionally unavailable men!
You’re smart, strong, and sucessful….and maybe even in therapy—so why do you still find yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable men?
You know the red flags. You’ve read the books. But somehow, you end up questioning your worth in relationships where you're overgiving, overthinking, and feeling unseen.
In this episode of the podcast, we break down the real reasons why this keeps happening—and why it’s not a mindset issue, but a nervous system and attachment blueprint issue.
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What You'll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The deeper reason why smart, self-aware women attract emotionally unavailable men
✅ How childhood emotional conditioning wires us to chase love instead of receive it
✅ The hidden connection between your nervous system and who you’re attracted to
✅ Why secure love can feel “boring” if you’ve never felt safe in love before
✅ How to start rewriting your love blueprint (without chasing, fixing, or proving yourself)
You’re not broken. You’re just burnt out from chasing love and craving safety in the only way your body knows.
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Remember: Attracting emotionally unavailable men isn’t a reflection of your worth. It’s a reflection of unhealed patterns that are absolutely changeable.
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