Trying harder doesn’t create the love you want — it quietly blocks it.

It blocks the closeness, connection, and deep love you’ve always wanted by….

If you’ve ever felt unseen in your relationship —
even though you’re kind, understanding, patient, and doing everything “right” —
this is for you.

A lot of strong, capable women don’t struggle because they’re too much.
They struggle because they’ve learned how to be good….

If love feels exhausting or unfulfilling…
If you’re always the one adjusting, understanding, holding it together…
If you’re doing all the “right” things and still feel unseen or unchosen…

This isn’t because you’re bad at relationships or you’re asking for too much.

Often, love feels like work because you’re tolerating things you don’t actually want — and calling it compromise, maturity, or being a “good partner….”

You don’t need a new years resolution….you need a reset. When you reset, you stop leading with effort and start leading with self-trust.

This is a life-changing practice that will change how you begin each new year which will help you and your relationships flourish and thrive!

Choosing yourself isn’t about leaving or caring less. It’s about stopping the quiet ways you abandon yourself while waiting to be chosen — and letting love meet you differently.

Most women who feel emotionally drained in relationships grew up learning some version of:

• “Be easy to love.”

• “Don’t make anyone mad.”

• “Take care of everybody.”

• “Don’t be a burden.”

• “If you give enough, he’ll give back.”

You were trained to over-function, over-give, over-understand, and over-stay….

Most women who feel emotionally drained in relationships grew up learning some version of:

• “Be easy to love.”

• “Don’t make anyone mad.”

• “Take care of everybody.”

• “Don’t be a burden.”

• “If you give enough, he’ll give back.”

You were trained to over-function, over-give, over-understand, and over-stay….

Learn how to inspire a man to step up so you can have the deeply connected and fulfilling partnership you deseve and desire!

Learn the truth about setting healthy boundaries in relationships and why your No is VITAL to getting your man to step up AND having a deeply connected and passionate partnership.

Learn how to inspire a man to step up so you can have the deeply connected and fulfilling partnership you deseve and desire!

Giving your all, aka overgiving and overfunctioning, doesnt create closeness — they quietly push love away. In this second video, I’ll show you why the more you give, the less you often get, and how this pattern leaves you drained instead of desired and how to make your man step up!

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***Based on actual research from thousands of couples.

These are need to know!

If you feel like youre the one who’s always giving, doing, and caring too much in your relationship…

Then this episode is just for you!

Here’s how to stop caring too much and overgiving in love!

There was a time in my life when I thought love meant effort. If I just tried harder, communicated better, made things easier for him… then I’d be loved fully.

But it never worked.

I felt unseen, undervalued, and emotionally starved—even while doing “everything right.”

And I see the same pattern in so many of the women I work with…..f you’re tired of overgiving and still not getting your Ineeds met…

Then this episode is just for you!

Do you care too much?

YUP that was me and it bit me in the ass big time!!

Im sharing what happens when you care too much and what you need to do to turn it all around!!

hint: its not caring less!

If you've ever felt a strong pull toward someone—even when something felt off—you’re not alone.

Discover the 5 relationship red flags that many smart, amazing and sucessful women confuse for chemistry. These are the subtle signs that feel thrilling at first... but can quietly lead to emotional unavailability, inconsistency, or toxic dynamics.

Spoiler: it's not your fault!

How do you know if it Is Love or a Trauma bond??!!

Learn how to EASILY know if you are caught in a trauma bond vs true connection and what to do about it!!

Ive been in one of these and it was toxic af and I broke it ….so I know the signs!!

Why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men and how to STOP! You are not doomed to stay in unfulfilling relationships where you feel unseen, unimportant, and invisible!

You deserve a healthy, loving relationship where you feel seen, secure, loved, and adored.