Struggling in Love — Even When You’re Doing Everything “Right”

You’re strong and successful — so why does love still feel so hard?

If you’re the one who shows up, communicates, and keeps the connection alive,
yet still feels unseen or unchosen —
this free guide shows you why effort alone doesn’t create lasting love — and what actually does.

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    What People Are Saying

    • "I was seeking out a professional to help me navigate my way out of a toxic relationship and family, when I had seen Phoenix’s videos online. Almost every video resonated with the real life experiences I had endured with said family. When we connected, she was beyond generous and empathetic. With her coaching, she gifted me the insight and strength I desperately needed. She’s so approachable, that what could have been an uncomfortable conversation, turned into a fluid, effortless purge of topics I wanted to discuss for years, yet couldn’t with others. I greatly appreciate Phoenix’s ability to connect on a personal level as well, as she shared her own vulnerable experiences, which made me feel much less isolated in mine. She truly is an earth angel with years of insight and experience she uses to help heal others."

      Leila Herbert

    • "Coach Phoenix has been an amazing coach! I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions and day to day life. She has the best tools and books that help me understand my trauma and sort through the feelings that come with it. She has made me realize I don't have to live miserable anymore! She's proved that healing IS possible."

      Chanelle Powell

    • “When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I didn't know how to take care of myself or put my needs first. I felt so exhausted and like I was just surviving my life instead of living it. Everyday, I had to people please and put myself last to get acceptance from others. After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself, and I'm showing up in a whole new way in my relationships! Coaching with her felt easy and supportive and I'm so happy I chose her as my coach! I highly recommend her if you're needing any help."

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    • "I was struggling with my inner critic, massive anxiety, and lots of anger. After a few months of coaching, I've learned to listen, control my feelings, my thoughts, and deal with my inner critic. I have completely changed for the better because of her help! Now I think things through, and no longer let my feelings control me. She literally took a broken, dysfunctional, unreliable person and turned me into a healthy, happy, functional and reliable man. My life has been completely changed. I cannot thank her enough! Words just don't express my true gratitude."

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    • “My relationship was at an impasse due to my partners insecurity and control issues. I didn't know how to get through to my partner or how to set boundaries. After Phoenix's coaching, I felt validated and understood. She helped me to identify my boundaries and communicate without blaming. Now my husband is getting help and we are healing together. With her help I am able to communicate how I feel and understand that I shouldn't feel bad for getting upset and I should better understand my emotions and not react right away. I feel so much better tackling a situation due to being able to handle my feelings!"

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