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Chosen. Cherished. Deeply Loved - Without Losing Yourself

Why Does Love Feel Harder Than It Should — Even When You’re Doing Everything Right?

You’re smart. You’re strong. You’re successful.
You can handle anything life throws at you…

So why does love still feel like so much work?
Why do you always feel like you’re the one caring more?

This 60-second quiz reveals the hidden pattern that pulls capable, high-achieving women into over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling unseen in their relationship

So you can finally feel supported, chosen, and cherished — instead of doing it all yourself.

👉 Take the Quiz to find out why.


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I know what it’s like to chase love — only to end up feeling unseen, unappreciated, and never quite enough.

On the outside, I looked strong, successful, and self-aware.
But in my relationship,
I abandoned myself.
I silenced my needs.
I carried the relationship on my back.

I thought if I could be perfect and “easy to love”…
I’d finally get the connection I longed for.

Instead, it left me anxious, overgiving, and questioning my worth — until I didn’t even recognize myself anymore.

One day, I saw the truth:
All my effort, devotion, and over giving… had left me drained, lonely, and invisible in my own relationship.

Walking away from the man that I loved, that I knew was wrong for me, changed everything.

I learned how to stop doing everything and giving too much, and rebuild my self-worth from the inside out.

I stopped chasing.
I stopped performing.
I stopped shrinking myself to be loved.

I became enough for me.

And for the first time, I felt chosen, safe, and truly seen.

Now I help strong, successful women do the same — to come home to themselves, break the patterns that keep them doing it all, giving everything, and feeling unseen in their relationships, and create healthy, connected love without losing who they are.

Because you deserve a relationship where you feel secure, chosen, and deeply loved for who you are.

💫 Take my 60-second quiz to uncover the hidden pattern that’s making love feel harder than it should — and learn the first step to creating deeply connected, lasting love.

👉 Reveal My Pattern — and How to Fix It.

I know what it’s like…”

Beth S.

“When I came to Phoenix for coaching, I was putting everyone else first because I didn’t want to upset others or have conflict. I was exhausted and had no energy! And I didn’t know how to say no or hold my boundaries.

After getting coaching, I'm now valuing how I feel, standing up for myself in my relationships (which I didn’t know how to do before), and Im feeling way more confident!

Coaching with Phoenix just felt so easy, supportive, and caring. I'm so happy I chose her as my coach. I highly recommend her!”

A woman and a man embracing outdoors in a snowy landscape, with the woman smiling and eyes closed.

You Deserve A Man Who Will Move Mountains To Be With You.

Does any of this sound like you?

  • You’re successful and capable… but love feels lonely or exhausting, not nourishing.

  • You’re doing “all the right things,” yet still feel unseen, unchosen, or taken for granted.

  • You carry the emotional weight of the relationship — planning, fixing, smoothing things over — and feel drained by it.

  • You’re calm and composed on the outside, but inside you’re tired of caring more than he does.

  • You keep wondering, “Why does love feel this hard when everything else in my life works?”

  • You’re tired of questioning yourself and wondering if you’re asking for too much.


If you’re ready for a relationship where you feel fully seen, supported, and deeply chosen, you’re in the right place.

I help powerful, heart-led women heal the hidden patterns that make love feel one-sided or emotionally lonely — without losing themselves or years of therapy.

This is about coming home to your worth and your truth…
so love can feel deeply connected, steady, and nourishing again.

✨ You don’t have to wait or chase after love anymore. You get to receive it.

👉 Reveal My Pattern — And Learn How to Shift It

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