Stop Doing Everything in Your Relationship.
Start Feeling Seen, Secure, and Adored.

No more losing yourself just to be loved.

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“She has been an amazing coach!

I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions, day-to-day life, and relationship….”

Chanelle P.

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Sabrina Phoenix, M. A.
Certified Relationship & Embodiment Coach • Certified STT Practitioner • Trained Therapist • Trauma Informed.

I help smart, strong, successful women stop over-giving and overfunctioning in love — so they feel safe, chosen, and deeply loved without working so hard for it.

This work isn’t about fixing you.


It’s about coming home to yourself — so you can be deeply loved for who you are in a healthy, thriving relationship.

Does this feel familiar?

  • You’re giving more in relationships, yet still feel unseen, unappreciated, or unchosen

  • You’re carrying the emotional weight — planning, fixing, holding it together — and it’s lonely and exhausting

  • You want closeness and intimacy, but it feels forced, awkward, or draining

  • You walk on eggshells, silence your needs so you’re not “too much”

  • You’ve lost parts of yourself — pleasing, performing, shrinking to feel wanted

  • You’re healing from a breakup/situationship that made you question your worth

💔 You don’t want perfect love. You want mutual, steady, nourishing love.

When you work with me, you will:

• Stop carrying the relationship so love becomes mutual and sustains you

• Feel calm, confident, and grounded
Less overthinking. Less anxiety. More clarity and inner calm.

• Speak your needs and boundaries without fear
No more chasing, explaining, or bracing for rejection.

• Stop settling for crumbs
Because you genuinely know your worth — not just intellectually, but in your body.

• Shift the dynamics in your current relationship to create the fulfilling and deeply connected love you’ve always wanted or attract emotionally available, secure partners.

You’re not asking for too much.

You’re asking for the right kind of love.

👉 Apply for Private Coaching Below

What’s Included

  • 60-minute 1:1 sessions (tailored to your unique situation).

  • 24-hour integration support after each session to help you apply what we worked on and create lasting change.

  • Deep pattern-level shifts
    So you stop repeating the same relationship dynamics and start responding from self-trust, clarity, and inner steadiness — even when emotions are high.

  • Change that actually lasts
    Because lasting change happen    s when your body feels safe — not just when your mind understands.

This Is For You If…

  • You’re done managing, fixing, or carrying your relationship on your shoulders

  • You’re done overthinking, second guessing yourself, or repeating the same old painful patterns

  • You’re ready to feel at ease, confident, and deeply at home in yourself — inside and out

  • You want to love to feel easy and restore connection and intimacy in your relationship — without working harder

  • You’re done chasing love or proving your worth and ready to have the deeply connected, loving relationshp you’ve always wanted

This Is Not For You If…

  • You’re looking for quick tips or surface-level advice

  • You’re not open to self-reflection or personal responsibility

  • You want to change someone else without changing how you show up

  • You’re not ready to stop chasing, proving, or overfunctioning in love

Real Results From Women Just Like You


Here’s how Chanelle went from overwhelmed and doubting her worth…
to confident, clear, and choosing love from a place of power.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • You don’t need to have everything figured out before coming in. In fact, many women schedule a session because they feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what their next step should be.

    This session is designed to help you get clarity, understand what’s really going on beneath the surface, and leave with a clearer sense of direction, confidence, and next steps.

    You don’t have to keep analysing what’s wrong or trying to fix what’s broken. You don’t have to do this alone.

  • Most of my clients have read the books, gone to therapy, and still find themselves stuck in the same relationship patterns.

    What’s different here is that we don’t just talk about why things are happening — we focus on what’s playing out in your life right now and how to shift it… for good.

    This work is about real-life change. We look at your patterns, how you respond in relationships, and how to start showing up in a way that actually changes the dynamic.

    I give you simple, actionable steps to create lasting change, while supporting you every step of the way.

  • Not at all.

    This work is about you — your patterns, your nervous system, and what you unconsciously allow or attract.
    Singles often experience the biggest shifts because they stop repeating the same dynamic and start choosing differently from the start.

    Whether in you’re single, heartbroken, or strugging in your marriage or relationship, I can help you.

  • This is one of the most important questions.

    The work we do focuses on your internal shifts — and those shifts naturally change the dynamic. Some women see their partner step up. Others gain the clarity and self-trust to choose differently. Either way, you stop feeling stuck, powerless, or confused.

  • No. This is real coaching.

    You’ll receive tangible breakthroughs and a personalized plan regardless of what you decide next. If ongoing coaching feels aligned, I’ll share your options — only if you want them. There’s no pressure to continue.

  • For many women, this session alone brings immediate clarity and relief.

    That said, deep, lasting change usually happens through continued work because patterns that formed over years need space to fully rewire. You’re never obligated to continue. The session stands on its own.

  • I’ve been there. That’s completely normal — especially if you’re used to being the strong one.

    Within minutes, most women feel a sense of relief and safety they haven’t felt in a long time. You can choose video or audio-only — whatever helps you feel most comfortable.

  • After our session, you’ll have 24 hours of integration support (within business hours) to help you apply what we uncovered.

    This is a space for follow-up questions, reflections, or moments where you feel unsure as you begin taking your next steps. I’ll help you stay clear, grounded, and supported so the insight from the session turns into real-life change — not just a good conversation.

    This support is focused on implementation and clarity (not for crisis situations), and it’s designed to help you stay steady as you start shifting patterns.

This session is your reset point.

You’ll walk away with:
✨ Clarity on the patterns keeping you stuck
✨ A plan designed specifically for your situation
✨ Next steps toward secure, steady, deeply connected love

If you’re ready to understand why love has felt so hard — and what to do differently moving forward — this is where it starts.

Book your private coaching session below

I only open a few 1:1 coaching spots each week — are you ready to step into the connected, secure, deeply fulfilling love you deserve?

If you don’t see a time that works — or you’d like a quick, low-pressure chat before booking — just send me a message using the pink box at the bottom of this page. I’m happy to connect. 💗

Get answers to common questions about private coaching, courses, and how to stop overgiving, overfunctioning, and chasing in relationships—so you can feel chosen, secure, and supported. Read the FAQ here.

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    "Coach Phoenix has been an amazing coach!

    I've only been seeing her for four weeks and already I'm experiencing a difference in my daily interactions, day-to-day life, and relationship.

    In 6 months, she had helped me navigate difficult challenges with my controlling family, handle a manipulative boyfriend, choose whether to stay or go, and lovingly supported and guided me through every step!

    She helped me see that my boyfriend couldn’t and wouldn’t change and to believe in the real, loving relationship that I deserved.

    She has the best tools and books that helped me understand and sort through my feelings. She has made me realize I don't have to live miserable anymore! She's proved that healing IS possible."

    Chanelle P.

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    "I came to Sabrina feeling anxious, insecure, and overwhelmed in my relationship. I was constantly overthinking, doubting myself, and terrified of being abandoned.

    Sabrina helped me feel calmer, more secure, and grounded. For the first time, I’m showing up in my relationship from a place of centered confidence instead of fear. She even helped me start healing the childhood abandonment I didn’t realize was still affecting me.

    Working with her has changed everything."

    Julia T.

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    "When I was at one of the lowest points in my life, Phoenix showed up like a force of nature. She didn’t just cheer me on from the sidelines — she got in the trenches with me. She’s the kind of coach who gives you the hard truth you need to hear — but wraps it in so much real love that you actually feel stronger after hearing it.

    Every conversation with her feels like a hand reaching out to pull you back to yourself. I never felt judged or embarrassed — only seen, supported, and safe to be exactly where I was.

    She shows up. She checks in. She actually cares. And you feel it—not just in her words, but in the way she never lets you stay stuck in the dark alone.

    Underneath her fire is an overflowing well of love. She’s your biggest cheerleader — fierce, loyal, and deeply invested in your growth. When she believes in you, it’s impossible not to start believing in yourself.

    Coach Phoenix is it. You’ll feel seen, you’ll feel led, and you’ll walk away stronger than you ever thought possible."

    Victoria R.

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    "I was seeking out a professional to help me navigate my way out of an unhealthy relationship and family, when I saw Phoenix’s videos online. Almost every video resonated with the real life experiences I’ve gone through.

    When we connected, she was beyond generous and empathetic. With her coaching, she gifted me the insight and strength I desperately needed. She’s so approachable that what could have been an uncomfortable conversation turned into a fluid, effortless purge of topics I wanted to discuss for years, yet couldn’t with others.

    I greatly appreciate Phoenix’s ability to connect on a personal level as well, as she shared her own vulnerable experiences, which made me feel much less isolated in mine. She truly is an earth angel with years of insight and experience she uses to help others."

    Leila H.

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    “I was struggling with my inner critic, massive anxiety, and lots of anger. I went from relationship to relationship and when things got hard, I would just leave. I didn’t know what I was doing wrong.

    I was so scared of conflict and would shut down easily or lose my temper. I had no idea how to handle problems in my relationship, take responsibility, and this caused so much unnecessary pain and drama.

    After a few months of coaching, I've learned how to control my feelings, deal with conflict in a healthy way, and speak up.

    I’ve completely changed for the better because of her help! Now I think things through, and no longer let my feelings control me.

    She literally took a broken, dysfunctional, unreliable person and turned me into a healthy, happy, functional, and reliable man.

    My life has been completely changed. I cannot thank her enough! Words just don't express my true gratitude."

    Matthew F.

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    “My marriage was at an impasse due to my partner’s insecurity and control issues. I didn't know how to get through to my husband, but I knew something had to change.

    After Phoenix's coaching, I felt validated, understood, and heard! She helped me identify my boundaries and communicate with him in a healthy way.

    I learned that I shouldn’t feel bad for getting upset and to communicate my feelings instead of stuffing them until I explode.

    Now my husband is getting help and we are healing together! I have no doubt that her guidance saved my marriage!!

    I feel hopeful about our future and blessed to finally have real guidance and answers!”

    Casey H.